Field Notes from The Proving

2026 began with 13 categories, 58 goals, and another year of relentless ambition. But just two weeks into January, everything changed.
An injury. Six weeks without running. A marathon I traveled to Miami to watch instead of compete in. And the uncomfortable realization that somewhere along the way, I'd confused what I accomplished with who I was.
What happens when the thing that gives you purpose is suddenly taken away?
This episode isn't really about running. It's about identity, external validation, faith, control, and learning that your worth cannot depend on your ability to perform.
Because sometimes the greatest test isn't whether you can keep going.
It's whether you can accept being forced to stop.
The race never happened. The proving did.
The work continues.
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At the beginning of 2025, I made a promise to myself: I was going to become a different man. Stronger. More disciplined. More resilient. A man made of pure steel.
By December, I had completed two marathons, thirteen half marathons, run over 1,000 miles, read thirteen books, traveled across multiple states, and balanced it all with a demanding full-time career.
On paper, it was a successful year.
But the greatest accomplishment wasn't anything I could measure.
In Episode 45 of Field Notes From The Proving, I reflect on the year that challenged everything I thought I knew about myself. From injury and obsession to community, perfectionism, vulnerability, and the relentless search for external validation, 2025 became something much bigger than a list of accomplishments.
It became the year I started discovering who I really was.
This episode explores the difference between achievement and fulfillment, the importance of asking for help, learning to embrace progress without abandoning ambition, and understanding that becoming stronger doesn't mean becoming harder.
Because sometimes the greatest transformation isn't becoming someone new.
It's finally learning to recognize, respect, and believe in the person you've been becoming all along.
The year is over. The lessons remain.
The work continues.
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What happens when ambition becomes the very thing standing in the way of your recovery?
After completing the Marine Corps Marathon, I spent November fighting an injury I couldn't explain. Physical therapy, chiropractic adjustments, cupping, scraping, strengthening exercises — I tried everything.
By December, I thought I had finally found the answer.
I hired my first running coach. Changed my shoes. Rebuilt my training. And somehow managed to run 107 miles.
On paper, it looked like a comeback.
In reality, it was anything but.
I convinced myself I was healthy enough to sign up for the Miami Marathon. But by December 31, I was sitting in an orthopedist's office getting four X-rays of my knee.
In Episode 44 of Field Notes from The Proving, I confront one of the most difficult lessons of my journey: ambition has a cost, and not everything can be conquered through effort.
Whether you're recovering from an injury, navigating grief, rebuilding your life, or chasing something extraordinary, sometimes the hardest thing to accept is that healing takes time.
You can control your effort. You cannot control the clock.
The work continues.
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After completing two marathons in 2025 and setting a new personal record of 3:27 at the Marine Corps Marathon, I had every reason to celebrate. I had accomplished my goals, transformed my life, and proven to myself what I was capable of.
But November brought an unexpected challenge.
A painful knee injury left me unable to run, questioning my body, my confidence, and the very obsession that had carried me to the finish line.
One year earlier, I was searching for change. Now, I was living inside that change, confronting the cost of my own ambition.
In Episode 43, I explore the fine line between discipline and obsession, the battles we willingly choose, and the powerful realization that asking for help isn't weakness. It's growth.
Because becoming someone better doesn't mean abandoning who you were. Sometimes it means learning how to carry those same pieces differently.
The journey changes you. But what you learn about yourself along the way is what makes you THE PROVEN.
ONLY THE PROVEN.
 
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What happens when you’ve done everything you can—and you still don’t know if your body will make it to the finish?
After months of training, injuries, physical therapy, missed long runs, and a knee that refused to cooperate, Chris arrived at the 2025 Marine Corps Marathon carrying more doubt than confidence.
The goal had changed.
Forget the perfect race.
Forget the perfect time.
Just finish.
From a freezing 5 A.M. walk to the starting line, to crying during the National Anthem, running through the deeply emotional Blue Mile, and seeing his husband Louis and best friend Denise chasing him around Washington, D.C. to cheer him on, the race became about something much bigger than running.
Then, at mile 20, the knee started throbbing.
Six miles remained.
And Chris had a choice.
He kept going.
He finished in 3:27—shaving 14 minutes off his previous 3:41 marathon—and still crossed the finish line wondering what might have been possible with a healthy knee.
Because sometimes success doesn't feel exactly the way you imagined it would.
Sometimes you're proud and disappointed.
Grateful and hungry.
Celebrating how far you've come while still wondering how much further you could have gone.
This episode is about learning to accept the race you have instead of mourning the race you wanted.
Whether you're fighting through injury, addiction, grief, failure, uncertainty, a career setback, a broken relationship, or simply a season of life that hasn't gone according to plan, the question eventually becomes the same:
Will you keep going anyway?
You don't need perfect circumstances.
You don't need certainty.
Sometimes you don't even need confidence.
You just need to take the next step.
The work continues.
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There comes a point in every difficult season where you've done everything you know how to do—and you still don't know if it's enough.
Going into October, the Marine Corps Marathon was only weeks away. The training was done. The fitness was there. But after months of injury, uncertainty, physical therapy, and constantly questioning my own body, something much harder had started to disappear: trust in myself.
One 20-mile run made me feel invincible.
One bad run a week later made me question everything.
That's helplessness.
And it isn't unique to running.
It's the place people find themselves in during recovery, after heartbreak, after service, after loss, after failure, or during any season where effort can no longer guarantee the outcome.
This episode isn't about whether my knee was ready for 26.2 miles.
It's about what happens when certainty disappears—and you have to move anyway.
Because reconstruction doesn't begin when confidence returns.
Reconstruction begins when confidence is gone, and you move anyway.
The work continues.
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By the end of September, my body was capable of running 20 miles. Twenty-two miles. Maybe even the full 26.2.
But injury does something more dangerous than cause pain.
It creates doubt.
You start thinking injured. Moving injured. Changing your stride, your breathing, your technique—making tiny adjustments to protect yourself until those tiny adjustments begin changing everything.
In Episode 40 of Field Notes from The Proving, I talk about what it feels like to be physically capable but mentally unsure. To feel helpless only weeks away from the biggest goal of your year. And to keep going anyway.
Because this isn't really an episode about running.
It's about what happens when something in your life makes you question whether you're capable anymore—and the role grit, community, asking for help, and perseverance play when confidence disappears.
Sometimes you don't need to know how the story ends.
You just need enough belief to take the next step.
Because you never know when you're one second away from the answer you needed.
The work continues.
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I was one month away from the Marine Corps Marathon.
The fitness was there. The work was almost done. I should have been standing at the top of the mountain feeling unstoppable.
Instead, I felt like I was about to fall off.
September was 90 miles of fear, pain, and doubt. A 17-mile run. A 19-mile run. A brutal 22-miler where my knee started giving out underneath me.
For my entire life, I had one answer whenever something got difficult:
Work harder.
But what happens when working harder is the thing breaking you?
Episode 39 of Field Notes from The Proving is about reaching the mountaintop, seeing the flag right in front of you, and wondering if your body is going to give out before you can capture it.
This is The Breaking Point.
The work continues.
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After Disney, Mystic, Loudoun County, and a 1:32 breakthrough at Napa, confidence wasn’t building anymore. It was exploding.
Running had become more than something I did. It was becoming proof of who I could be.
With the Marine Corps Marathon now on the calendar, August became about building again: more miles, longer runs, physical therapy, recovery, speed, and an obsession with finding the next version of myself.
But underneath all that progress, something else was happening.
My knee hurt. My hamstring hurt. My calf hurt. My Achilles hurt. My heel hurt. Runs were getting cut short. My body was sending signals I wasn’t ready to hear.
Because every lesson I had learned so far told me the same thing:
Work harder, and you'll get better.
For years, I thought I was running toward goals.
I was beginning to realize I was actually running toward myself.
The good. The bad. And sometimes the ugly.
This is The New Obsession.
The work continues.
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Months of physical therapy. A knee that had nearly derailed everything. A brutal race through the hills of Loudoun County. And one goal I couldn't stop thinking about:
1:30–1:35.
Napa to Sonoma was supposed to be the test.
But Napa meant so much more than a race.
It's where I got engaged. It's one of my husband and my favorite places in the world. And this time, we got to share it with friends who had never experienced it before—wineries, incredible meals, ridiculous laughs, and memories we'll have forever.
Then came race morning.
13.1 miles through the fog, vineyards, and relentless rolling hills of wine country.
I crossed the finish line in 1:31:54 — 35th overall.
My final full mile: 6:18.
After everything that happened with my knee, every PT session, every ice session, every extra mile, every doubt and every fucking hill...
it paid off.
I looked at that clock and had one thought:
I'm in the club.
This is Field Notes from The Proving.
The work continues.
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